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Babysitting
The Joy Of Fantasy
No matter how pleasant and fulfilling one's daily life is, sometimes we all need to
members. The more stressful our role is, the further it is from our own deepest
impulses, the more we need an escape from the limitations of everyday life.
Some people use alcohol, drugs or gambling to transcend their ordinary lives, but
these activities generally prove to be both destructive and unsatisfying. The
escape provided by a rich fantasy life, however, can be constructive and
extraordinarily fulfilling. Instead of destroying true intimacy, a shared fantasy
increases it. Instead of stifling the needs of our true self, fantasy allows us to
express and realize our true needs.
No matter how pleasant and fulfilling one's daily life is, sometimes we all need to
members. The more stressful our role is, the further it is from our own deepest
impulses, the more we need an escape from the limitations of everyday life.
Some people use alcohol, drugs or gambling to transcend their ordinary lives, but
these activities generally prove to be both destructive and unsatisfying. The
escape provided by a rich fantasy life, however, can be constructive and
extraordinarily fulfilling. Instead of destroying true intimacy, a shared fantasy
increases it. Instead of stifling the needs of our true self, fantasy allows us to
express and realize our true needs.
A New and Powerless Self
What pleasure can a grown find in the role of a
submissive baby, a role that many people might see as
embarrassing or demeaning?Can it be that s/he has an inner need, a secret self
that s/he cannot acknowledge or express in her/his ordinary life?
Our boys are taught that boys mustn't cry, or wear frilly clothes, or be passive?
Does he feel constantly pressured to be strong, to be silent, to be a macho man?
Maybe he needs to play the role of a diapered baby or little schoolboy so that he
can express emotions that are normally forbidden to him, and to wear taboo
clothing. Given society's constant demands on men to be masculine, to take
charge, to succeed, to do instead of be, it is no wonder that even the strongest,
brightest, and most successful male may seek contact with his hidden softer self
in his relationship to a "mommy's" firm but kindly rule.
In this day and time girls are pushed as hard as boys, taught that to succeed in
the "man's world" she will have to be twice a good as a man. This also leads to
a lot of pressure and the role of a pampered princess may have long been a
dream of theirs, unexpressed in her reality.
The pleasures of the adult baby are the polar opposites of (and therefore closely
akin to) the pleasures of the "Mommy". It is a truism that all polarities express
the opposite ends of a single principle or idea. Like yin and yang, darkness and
light, baby
male and mommy need one another to be complete.
What pleasure can a grown find in the role of a
submissive baby, a role that many people might see as
embarrassing or demeaning?Can it be that s/he has an inner need, a secret self
that s/he cannot acknowledge or express in her/his ordinary life?
Our boys are taught that boys mustn't cry, or wear frilly clothes, or be passive?
Does he feel constantly pressured to be strong, to be silent, to be a macho man?
Maybe he needs to play the role of a diapered baby or little schoolboy so that he
can express emotions that are normally forbidden to him, and to wear taboo
clothing. Given society's constant demands on men to be masculine, to take
charge, to succeed, to do instead of be, it is no wonder that even the strongest,
brightest, and most successful male may seek contact with his hidden softer self
in his relationship to a "mommy's" firm but kindly rule.
In this day and time girls are pushed as hard as boys, taught that to succeed in
the "man's world" she will have to be twice a good as a man. This also leads to
a lot of pressure and the role of a pampered princess may have long been a
dream of theirs, unexpressed in her reality.
The pleasures of the adult baby are the polar opposites of (and therefore closely
akin to) the pleasures of the "Mommy". It is a truism that all polarities express
the opposite ends of a single principle or idea. Like yin and yang, darkness and
light, baby
male and mommy need one another to be complete.
The Freedom to Feel
Many people find Mommy and Baby fantasies
liberating in that they give real permission to let go and
enjoy acts, clothes, or sensations that are otherwise hidden or discouraged.
Moreover, even a naughty baby need feel no guilt for enjoying these things; not
only does his/her strict or gentle mommy put him/her (or force him) into those
ruffled panties or that demeaning position, she also "punishes" him/her for his
transgressions. The scenario of misbehavior, punishment, and forgiveness is a
classic Aristotelian plot that offers both actors emotional catharsis.
many 'babies' resolve other tensions in their lives. Some males,. for instance,
cannot cry except in the context of their fantasy life. Others need to express
other taboo emotions: like fear, anger, rebellion, contrition, submissiveness or
helplessness. After a forbidden outburst, his Mommy can punish him and then
offer forgiveness and consolation.
Adult babies, especially those in positions of extraordinary responsibility, often
seek respite from the stress of having to constantly make decisions. It's a relief
to be told precisely what to do and how to do it, to have the penalties for
mistakes so clear-cut and so immediate. A session of disciplining a school age
boy who wets his pants, for example, may be painful but it is also sure to have a
happy ending. Real life is never so well choreographed or so satisfying.
Many people find Mommy and Baby fantasies
liberating in that they give real permission to let go and
enjoy acts, clothes, or sensations that are otherwise hidden or discouraged.
Moreover, even a naughty baby need feel no guilt for enjoying these things; not
only does his/her strict or gentle mommy put him/her (or force him) into those
ruffled panties or that demeaning position, she also "punishes" him/her for his
transgressions. The scenario of misbehavior, punishment, and forgiveness is a
classic Aristotelian plot that offers both actors emotional catharsis.
many 'babies' resolve other tensions in their lives. Some males,. for instance,
cannot cry except in the context of their fantasy life. Others need to express
other taboo emotions: like fear, anger, rebellion, contrition, submissiveness or
helplessness. After a forbidden outburst, his Mommy can punish him and then
offer forgiveness and consolation.
Adult babies, especially those in positions of extraordinary responsibility, often
seek respite from the stress of having to constantly make decisions. It's a relief
to be told precisely what to do and how to do it, to have the penalties for
mistakes so clear-cut and so immediate. A session of disciplining a school age
boy who wets his pants, for example, may be painful but it is also sure to have a
happy ending. Real life is never so well choreographed or so satisfying.
Thanks to Diaper Pail Friends for such a wonderful explanation of Baby Role Play, slight
modifications were made to make it address either male or female
modifications were made to make it address either male or female
I have a large sized tub for baby baths and a guard to put on the bed for nap
times. Cuddly toys, as well as other toys to play with. I love to cuddle, play,
feed, and don't mind a bit changing wet diapers, complete with lotion and
powder, on my sweet ones.
Regardless of what sort of babysitter you are looking for I promise a special
nurturing time with each and every baby. Please know that Auntie Rhi
understands your need for privacy and will never discuss you or your visit with
anyone else.... unless you want other's involved in your visit, it will be just you
and Auntie. It's important to me that you feel comfortable, as well as, have a
very meaningful and special time, but then Auntie can also be strict and firm, if
needed. We will communicate several times prior to our first visit so we both feel
comfortable for our first meeting and I will have a good understanding about
what you really need. I have references available upon request.
I should state that what we are discussing here is NOT sexually oriented at all,
but simply a form of non-sexual private theater between two consenting adults.
Also, where as, I use the terms, "boy, girl, and baby" Auntie Rhi will only
babysit babies that are over 18 real time. I also need to restate that this is not a
sexual service and any request for such will end the session immediately and you
will be asked to leave.
Visits with your Auntie Rhi are set up by appointment only, and I generally need
about a weeks notice, however, if you find, at the last minute that you will be in
the area, you can certainly let me know and I can check my schedule.
We can discuss your preferences, but generally, bring your favorite outfits and
diapers and I'll be happy to do the changing. We can have a bottle, a snack,
some cartoons, cuddles on the couch, reading stories, coloring, playing with
blocks or toys or even a nap with a baby quilt, a big stuffed bear or lamb or all
three, lol.
It's possible to add bath time, a visit to the park or even a play date, depending
on availability.
If you feel you need a caring mommy/babysitter with or without discipline, and
are interested in knowing more, click on the Compensation link.
times. Cuddly toys, as well as other toys to play with. I love to cuddle, play,
feed, and don't mind a bit changing wet diapers, complete with lotion and
powder, on my sweet ones.
Regardless of what sort of babysitter you are looking for I promise a special
nurturing time with each and every baby. Please know that Auntie Rhi
understands your need for privacy and will never discuss you or your visit with
anyone else.... unless you want other's involved in your visit, it will be just you
and Auntie. It's important to me that you feel comfortable, as well as, have a
very meaningful and special time, but then Auntie can also be strict and firm, if
needed. We will communicate several times prior to our first visit so we both feel
comfortable for our first meeting and I will have a good understanding about
what you really need. I have references available upon request.
I should state that what we are discussing here is NOT sexually oriented at all,
but simply a form of non-sexual private theater between two consenting adults.
Also, where as, I use the terms, "boy, girl, and baby" Auntie Rhi will only
babysit babies that are over 18 real time. I also need to restate that this is not a
sexual service and any request for such will end the session immediately and you
will be asked to leave.
Visits with your Auntie Rhi are set up by appointment only, and I generally need
about a weeks notice, however, if you find, at the last minute that you will be in
the area, you can certainly let me know and I can check my schedule.
We can discuss your preferences, but generally, bring your favorite outfits and
diapers and I'll be happy to do the changing. We can have a bottle, a snack,
some cartoons, cuddles on the couch, reading stories, coloring, playing with
blocks or toys or even a nap with a baby quilt, a big stuffed bear or lamb or all
three, lol.
It's possible to add bath time, a visit to the park or even a play date, depending
on availability.
If you feel you need a caring mommy/babysitter with or without discipline, and
are interested in knowing more, click on the Compensation link.
Adult Babies
