Due to normal life's constraints I generally prefer at least a weeks notice,
however, if you find, at the last minute, that you will be in the area, you can
certainly let me know,  if possible I'll make time for you. There is a unique
relationship between Auntie and a naughty nephew or niece. It will take a little
time for us both to be comfortable about a real time meeting.  I do NOT charge
for emails and calls to get to know one another. Do keep in mind that I do tend
to stay busy and may not be able to get back to you immediately.

Individual sessions can be Simply Spanking, Role-Play,Therapeutic Spanking or
Disciplinary. I have also worked with Couples, and offer Online
Consultation/Direction under specific situations.  

I need to restate that I am not a Dominantrix and do not engage in BDSM
activities with clients. My clothes always stay on, this is not a sexual service and
any request for such will end the session immediately and you will be asked to
leave.

If you have a need, desire or idea about something specific, feel free to contact
me, I'll be happy to discuss it and if it is not something I can do,I can certainly
let you know. I'm not judgemental till I actually have you over my lap and the
paddle in my hand, lol.

Individual
Working one on one is a wonderful way to address your specific needs.  I will
get to know you very well. Not only your specific needs, and desires, but also
your beginning tolerances, how you react at different stages and what really
work best for you. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself as
well.  Establishing a good sense of trust is very important. Please know that we
will discuss all sessions in detail before hand but once we get started, Your
Auntie Rhi knows best. So all negotiating will finished and I will be immune to
pleading and wailing. It's for your own good, after all, and we all know it will
hurt me more than it does you.....

  • Simply spanking sessions are ideal for clients who have never
    experienced spanking as an adult, or just simply like to be spanked with
    out the drama and/or complications. Of course, the methods, implements
    and intensity will be tailored to your tolerances, which we will be learning
    together. I am very good at watching body language as well as the
    condition of the skin and judging how we are progressing, but I also
    employ the, tried and true, traffic light safe word method. Yellow means
    go a little more, Red means stop. I will respect your boundaries, until you
    ask me to push them some, and even then I'll be watching for your sincere
    limits.

  • Role Play covers a variety of domestic and other possibilities. Just to
    reiterate, all references to “boy/girl” ,“child” or any reference that might be
    thought of as a "non-adult" is purely a term of endearment, as all clients
    will be 18 or over. Various roles might be Auntie/ Nephew-Niece,
    Governess/Ward, Babysitter/child, Mommy/son, Wife/husband,
    Girlfriend/boyfriend, Teacher/student, Boss/employee, Nurse-
    Doctor/patient, Policewoman/offender. The intensity of these sessions can
    be moderate to severe…...but here again every individual is unique and
    what is mild for you might be severe for the next person, so we’ll make
    sure to determine your needed intensity…..... let me know where your
    imagination might take us.

  • Therapeutic Spanking is designed to allow for the warm glow,
    release of tensions, even the catharsis that a spanking can bring and pain is
    usually not the primary focus, though again, the intensity will be specific to
    the needs of the individual. Some people need the pain to bring up the
    endorphins to reach the state of consciousness they are looking for.
    Rhythmic breathing and bio-feed back techniques are employed, to assist
    with the transition. Usually there is music or relaxing sounds playing during
    the session as well as scents to induce relaxation and attain the desired
    “space”. After care is more involved, as it’s important for the client to be
    guided back from the experience.

  • Disciplinary Spankings can be related to behaviors in your past or
    current life situation. For strict but caring accountability and motivation
    with or without a Behavior Plan.

  • Personal Behavior Plan- This will be designed with and for you, to
    address real issues in your life. This includes working with you to set up
    reasonable, measurable, and obtainable goals; rules and/or schedules for
    behavior; as well as specific consequences for failing to meet goals or
    breaking rules, and rewards for positive progress..  You will receive a
    personal booklet. You will report to me at least once weekly by email, or
    other method as we agree, and we will discuss how you are doing with
    your plan and what you will expect at your next visit.





Couples
I have worked with couple in the past and there are several options available and
if you have a specific situation, you don't see outlined here, by all means drop
me a note and let's discuss it, chances are we can figure out a way to work out
something to meet your specific need.

  • A person who wants to learn to spank their spouse and needs some real
    time hands-on instruction and experience.
  • A wife who isn't comfortable inflicting the actual punishment, however, is
    supportive and/or even desirous of her husband receiving the punishment
    for behavior she finds intolerable. (In the specific case, the wife kept track
    of goals missed or rules broken and sent a note with the boy when he
    came to his visit, pinned to his shirt. She also inspected my return note, his
    bottom and then discussed his spanking when he got home.)
  • A spouse that wants and needs domestic discipline (spankee) may have a
    difficult time communicating the intricacies of performing that discipline to
    their partner (Spanker), even if the partner is willing to try. Having an
    experienced Auntie to help explain, give a demonstration, instruction and
    hands-on direction can assist with the learning curve. This can make the
    Spanker feel more confident and in turn  the spankee  to have more
    confidence in the Spanker. This also allows the spankee to stay in a non
    directive role. That helps in keeping the Spanking roles consistent.
  • A couple might have a role play that they really want to both participate in
    a situation that would need a strict Auntie to set the tone.

Online/Phone Consultations
I am available for IM, E-mail and/or phone consultations, on their own merit or
to augment your regular visits. When we begin to communicate, we will go over
specifically what your needs are and discuss this possibility more in detail. I do
NOT however write stories. I don't enjoy it, I'm not good at it, therefore it
stresses me out and no one wants a stressed Auntie, lol... and I don't want you
disappointed. Any email role play will be interactive on your part. Do Not send
me money before we both understand and agree on the format we're going to
follow.
A Behavior Plan is good for 6 months, and as it really
involves regular visits, the plan also provides for a specific
reduction in the session rate during that 6 month period.
If you are interested in specific  information
on services available, please click on the
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